Listening is not to figure out how the other person is wrong. Nor is it what the problem is and fix it. The goal of authentic listening is to love. Whether it is a friend, a child, a relative, a neighbor, look at them in the eyes and smile, sit by their side and listen to what they say, not only they will not forget that kindness, but it also works as a psychological therapy. You have done your share of human loving, it's a good feeling.
